Johanna,
I'm glad I gave you advice but I'm sorry it turned that way.... I did an internet search and apparently, Iceland is involved in the Allos Efaproxyn trial. This is a radio-sensitizor given prior to WBR with an excellent safety and therapeutic profile. I have attached an article: 
http://www.centerwatch.com/patient/s.../stu70898.html
and here is the link to the company:
http://www.allos.com/  and although this site just talks to North America, phone them as a search did show Iceland.
After that, tykerb + xeloda would be the cutting-edge choice.
Sorry but this should be very treatable with small metastasis.
Good luck,
Al