[LovingDaughter]

Chelee:

I have read that ending treatment can be even more emotionally draining than going through treatment. When you are taking treatment, you are actively doing something about the problem, but when you stop, sometimes you feel helpless. This is normal.

Hang in there and stay strong. You have taken this disease head on. Try to be confident about some of the strides that you have made with your treatment.

Consider doing things that are therapeutic for you--go shopping, get a massage, get a reiki treatment (they really help my mom), etc. Take time out for yourself--it may make you feel better. I always encourage my mom to take baths with lavendar bubble bath. Lavendar is very soothing and can help you to calm down. Consider even getting a lavendar pillow mist. It always puts me right to sleep!

I am sure that it can be frustrating talking to your husband. Sometimes it's difficult to know the right thing to say. I am sure that he is also going through a lot right now--scared, worried, sad etc., but he may just not know the way to express his emotions. Try to cut him some slack, and consider seeking out someone else as a confidant who isn't as close to the situation. My mom finds that her best confidants are other women who have fought the disease and won because they know exactly how she feels. They say things to her that I can't even say.

Don't give up, stay strong, and you WILL beat this thing. We'll all be right here cheering you on.

Take care and may God bless you and keep you safe,

Jayne