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"By not accepting help, you are being selfish and not allowing others to do something good for you ,this denies them the chance to feel good about themself"...THIS IS WHAT MY MOTHER TOLD ME!! She can be pretty darn straight talking but it's true. People want to help when they see someone suffering, it makes them feel good. I have a hard time accepting help, still don't like to do it. I have had no problems accepting the great meals that my friends have cooked for me though. One friend of is a great cook and cooks so often for me that when I got news that I was NED, I jokingly told all my other friends NOT to tell Jennifer my good news because she would stop cooking for me...lol..sherryg683
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