Take a deep breath. There's lots of info on the internet. Many mainstream sites even talk about alternative stuff.
Here's some sites that I have bookmarked that are for all types of cancer or general medical sites, maybe somewhere you will find help. You'll also need help for yourself to be a caregiver - that's a tough job also. Good luck. sarah
American cancer society:
http://www.cancer.org/docroot/home/index.asp
the American society of clinical oncology:
http://www.asco.org/ac/1,1003,_12-002138,00.asp
national cancer society:
http://www.cancer.gov/
Sloan-Kettering Hospital:
http://www.mskcc.org/mskcc/html/44.cfm
medscape medical journal:
http://www.medscape.com
People Living with Cancer:
http://www.plwc.org/plwc/Home/1,1743,,00.html
Mayo clinic:
http://www.mayoclinic.com
U of PA:
http://www.oncolink.com/
Stanford U:
http://www.med.stanford.edu/healthlibrary/
John Hopkins:
http://webapps.jhu.edu/jhuniverse/medicine/