Lisa,
I was dx in 12/03 at age 39 and our cases are very similar. I still have a
breast lump along with liver mets. I have failed 3 treatments in combo with herceptin and am currently on a vaccine trial (no chemo) and will get scans in 4 weeks to see how I am doing. I am now 41 and doing very well and feel great. If you want to email me more for more specifics my address is
eamegaw@yahoo.com
Never give up!
Beth