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Alice,
It's all new to your friends and family and I think at times the "leaning" is denial on their part. But I have found that in time they do come around.
When I was first diagnosed last November my daughter was away at school and decided not to come home for Thanksgiving and Christmas. It hurt but I knew it was fear and not wanting to accept the fact that things change.( last night we picked her up from JFK....she decided to miss her last class before the holiday so she could help me cook)
I wouldnt worry about your son, he just needs time to sort things out in his head. In the mean time, make time for yourself, celebrate you! this is your time! they will understand.
As for friends, someone here once posted a great idea, after every onc appointment post a general letter to all your friends and relatives of your progress and thoughts. This way you are not constantly re-telling and re-living. I think reading it helps them as well.
Like my mom once said " by time he walks down the aisle, he'll have stopped wetting the bed" .....you gotta love moms!
Maryanne
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