Displaced Anger
Dear Sweet Annemarie,
Displaced anger; I think that is what the pro's call it...when someone is upset at something personal then take it out on somebody else; and YOU were that someone else.
You have shown true remorse; apologized; and you are now letting her stew in her own juices; it is a good move to separate your self from that!
Now, take care of you...you mentioned a couple of times how you keep your cards close to your chest. I would suspect that your close family and close friends would like to be more supportive when they can; it seems like it would only help you if you let them know when you are reaching a crisis point...another scan, bad results; a new round of chemo. I send out occasional emails and thank my family and friends for their support while asking them for their prayers during particularly stressful times. We can all pray and they are more than happy to oblige...I truly feel a difference...
Good luck angel and keep us posted.
Love Kim from CT
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