[Kris for Julie]

Hello, everyone! I'm writing on behalf of my best friend, Julie. I'm new to this - and it's my first posting - so please forgive me if I don't know the correct lingo, etc.

Jules was diagnosed in 2001 with HER2+++ BC. She only had her lump removed as well as a few lymph nodes - followed by chemo and radiation. Three months ago her markers were up and we soon discovered that the cancer has spread to her hip. She was accepted in a special program (using Avastin and Herceptin). Last night we learned that the last three months of treatment have not worked for her. The cancer has spread to her ribs and vertebrae. Needless to say, Jules is devastated - and terrified. She's apprehensive to go online, so - here I am. I discovered this wonderful site last night. This IS the site! I know it could be tremendously helpful to Julie!

I do have a question: If Julie has NOT had Herceptin until the last three months (at the time of recurrence) and she has not responded to it (with the Avastin) over the last three months - does that mean she's not going to respond to the Herceptin - or is it all about the combination? I was encouraged to see so many success stories using Herceptin. I would welcome your thoughts - and honesty. Also - I would love to hear from young moms like Julie (Julie is 43 with a 4-year-old daughter). As her best friend, I want to be supportive - but I know that there is someone out there that can help her though this difficult time better than I can. I would love to hear from you! Thank you so much for your time - and thank you for all of your wonderful and inspiring stories! Sincerely, Kris