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I am 42 w/ two young children too.
Did you have a breast MRI? For me, only one tumor was visible on Ultrasound and none on Mammogram. The MRI was the only modality that picked-up all the cancer. I too had multifocal disease and was very pleased w/my lumpectomy (actually had 2 lumpectomies on same breast). Completed chemo in March '05 and then rads in June. Did really well
Eventhough I was technically a Stage I, I was treated as though I were a Stage II.
My largest tumor was 1.7cm and the smallest was .7cm Generally, the largest tumor dictates the Stage, but with me, they added all of them up and decided for Stage II due to my HER 2 status. My Tx plan was considerably more aggressive (not that any chemo is "lite") also because of HER2 positivity.
I am pre-menopausal and am taking Tamoxifen for my miniscule ER 5%+ PR- cancer. I figured I am better off taking the Tamoxifen for that 5% than not. I am also on Herceptin.
Doctors are suggesting I remove the ovaries in a couple of years and get on an aromatase inhibitor (Arimidex).
I don't freak-out anymore. I just try to be as informed as possible. This site is a superb location for information and support. As you can see, we are all really quick to support you and provide you with whatever we know. Just remember these are just opinions... you will see how important it is to stay on top of the latest and ultimately make your own decisions.
The one piece of advice I will give you is "don't fall in love with your doctor". Have no fear to seek other opinions even if your oncologist is your husband!!!
My best to you,
Maria
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