Jen,
I belong to a local Glida's club, you can go on the internet and see if one is in your area at
www.gildasclub.org they are a wonderful and free resource.
My local Gilda's offer over 130 meetings a month, they have cancer specific meetings , general meetings, meetings for family members, free child care so you can attend meetings in a wonderful place called "noogieland" (you'll get it if you remember gilda on snl). It is a fabulous place, I hope you have one near you.
Also, a few hospitals in our area also offer meetings, you don't have to be a patient there to participate.
Hope this gives you some other suggestions.
Good Luck,
Edie