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Hi Lyn, You came to the right place to unload your fears, anger, and of course the hope, and the will to keep on fighting. You hit it on the nail. Our families behave often as if they couldn't cope without us which is one thing that keeps us going. It's also listed as a positive in survival statistics. It's also one way for them to cope; to ask to be driven or other things, and to ignore what you are going through. I imagine you have already heard of or read the book "Get out of my life but could you first drive me and Cheryl to the mall." If you haven't it may give you a laugh.
In any case you have the right to vent and be angry and my thoughts and well wishes are with you.
Best,
Barbara
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