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I'm a woman and would likely say the same thing to you that your Dad did. He sounds like my kind of person (and much like my own Father would have said.)
If you'd gained 50 - 100 lbs. and endangered your health in other ways because of it, that's a different story. Or even if you had to pay for Herceptin yourself and just couldn't afford a new wardrobe, that, too, would be a different story.
It's really a matter of priorities. Just imagine yourself as the weight you'd like to be and make it real for yourself (very doable, I assure you), avoid mirrors, and the heck with people who actually think its more important than a person's mind and soul. People like that are simply not worth a glance back!
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