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Lisa, my heart just sank upon reading your post. I hope that you are not in too much pains.
Would it be possible at all, if you shortened your NJ trip & then take Abraxane maybe just a few days later (2 or 3, however long enough that your oncologist feels comfortable with your timeframe)?? I would talk to my oncologist about seeing if I could include the trip AND have Abraxane "timely".
If you don't go to NJ after all, you might feel double-guilty.... for missing the chance of meeting your granddaughter AND for having Mel stay back & miss his chance as well. Ask yourself how you would feel if you decided to forego the trip & start on Abraxane. Please talk more about this with Mel -- just don't do anything harsh that you might regret later.
You know, I'm sure that your child would completely understand if you were not to go, he/she would want you to focus on your health & continue being the strong fighter that you are! And you could always go to NJ another time in the near future.
And rely on your instincts; they are usually right.
I'm cheering on your side! Sending positive vibes your way.
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