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I would highly recommend that you use the Intenet as much as possible. I don't think I've run across a website yet on breast cancer that was "misguided" and I'm in a doctoral program and very critical of the validity of information.
Plus, once you start searching you'll be able to see the trends. And you can count on sites like the National Cancer Society or articles from peer-reviewed journals. The only ones to really watch out for is those that tout some treatment that hasn't been subjected to rigorous testing but are marketing pieces. And those are quite easy to spot. If the purpose is to sell you something (other than a book by an expert or supplements from a respected expert like Dr. Susan Love [no idea if she has anything like this or not--just using her as an example]).
Another trustworthy site that's not devoted to breast cancer is Amazon.com. I've bought a number of books on breast cancer from them--more from their vendors, which are normally much cheaper, even when new.
Your very best defense is information and the willingness to take responsibility for your own well being. Plus, the more you know, the less frightening it becomes.
Do not second guess yourself. None of us has a (reliable) crystal ball. I've no doubt that adopting your daughter was an excellent decision. Life, unfortunately, doesn't come with any kind of warranty. I'm sure that once you get over the shock, and start taking charge, you'll do fine.
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