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You hit the nail right on the head, 'SATISFYING FOR OUR PARTNERS" what about us, it is like we are being held to ransom just to hang on to them. Not all partners are like this but I think it is not isolated, just embarrasing to talk about, but lets face it, we can't see one another blush over the net, I know I find it very painful even with a lubricant, so how are we supposed to feel pleasure over pain? Then the risk of using a eostrogen cream, the mental turmoil of are we stirring up more cancer cels so we can look forward to more treatment. My partner always says I never initiate being intimite, go figure, like I want to hit my own thumb with the hammer, I explain and just get "oh sorry", until next time, and for some time afterwards I end up with an iritated bladder, not unocmmon I believe after having a discussion with one of my close friends who ended up in our elete BC club, a couple of years back. I don't have the answer yet but be assured I have been looking, I am determinded to stay around for a lot longer and don't want to be a dried up old prune.
Love & Hugs Lyn
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