Jane,
Joe recently posted a web site:
www.menagainstbreastcancer.org which includes support information. For a few weeks, we had a Saturday morning Chat Room for men which my husband ran. Lack of activity shut it down, but my husband, Mel, age 43, has seen me through breast cancer 4 years ago and now liver and bone mets. Mel would be happy to communicate one-on-one with your husband, either by e-mail or phone. His e-mail is
www.caffeinecowboy.com; cell phone is 303-604-6900. We live in Colorado.
Kudos to your husband for realizing that our spouses need support, too.
Love and light,
Lisa