I don't have any words of wisdom, just wanted to say I understand. I feel like there is always a cloud over my head when I think about it. My best days are when I'm busy and don't have time to think about it.
Understand on a personal level as well. Sex is no fun anymore, we have to use condoms now (yuck), and having one breast, no hair, still a little baby fat, @#%&@#l dryness and being tired all the time (think the baby has an ear infection, she's been up a lot at night lately) how are we supposed to have a normal sex life? I used to enjoy sex
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