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Nikki,
That really worries me that you are not sleeping in the same bed as your husband. Why is that? I know it is REALLY hard to shut off the cancer thoughts and have sex. Believe me, it was really hard at first. I was angry at my husband for even asking.Then at first i just did it because i was sick of him asking. Then after time went on, i started to feel into it again. It was slow, but it does come back. Its different, but for us it has been better. I know what you mean about men wanting things to be ;ok again. Mine is the same way, he won't talk hardly at all about cancer. I've excepted that so i talk to my friends when i need that. You two need eachothers energy to make it through this cancer journey. Get back in the same room, that's the first step
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