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Nikki you will get through this. I was adopted by my grandparents and they were my parents. It was my father who caused all our problems. I went to counseling for 8 months and it did help. After my father passed I was able to talk to my mother and found out why I was put out for adoption and believe me it was for the best. I have a sister and brother who stayed with my parents and they can tell me some horror stories. Every thing happens for a reason. Like so many have said you need positive people around you. If this is the way your Mom is going to be then that is the way it will be and you can not change it. The court order pretty much sums it up. You need to move on with your life and put your Mom behind you. It is her loss as well. Life is not always fair but its up to us to make it the best we can. We are the ones who know what we like and will enjoy. Concentrate on your husband and son and be thankful you do have them. Just think without them what would it be like? Find some positive people that know the Lord as their saviour and they will be a big help to you. I will be praying for you. Hugs, Sandy
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