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linn65 · 07-18-2013, 11:07 AM

Janis,

It has been 5 years since the divorce, so I don't think I can get anything now. The only thing I did do if he sold the house than I get 1/2 the equity. But he isn't going to sell it he is adding on and making it bigger. I wish I could go back and make him sell the house now too, but I can't do that either. Before he had a GF which is this last year if I wanted I could stop by the house if Alexander was there anytime, but I can't now.

I take 75 mg of ventaflaxin which I think is effexor for the hot flashes, but it is a anti-depressant. I did take Lexapro which helped I thought however it isn't good to take with Tamox because it can make it work less effectively.

07-18-2013, 11:07 AM	#5
linn65 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: Attica, IN Posts: 371	Re: A new day! Thanks for the support last night. Janis, It has been 5 years since the divorce, so I don't think I can get anything now. The only thing I did do if he sold the house than I get 1/2 the equity. But he isn't going to sell it he is adding on and making it bigger. I wish I could go back and make him sell the house now too, but I can't do that either. Before he had a GF which is this last year if I wanted I could stop by the house if Alexander was there anytime, but I can't now. I take 75 mg of ventaflaxin which I think is effexor for the hot flashes, but it is a anti-depressant. I did take Lexapro which helped I thought however it isn't good to take with Tamox because it can make it work less effectively. __________________ myleftlump.wordpress.com - started blogging my IDC breast cancer 7/2012 diagnosed with multiple solid lesions 7/20/12 biopsy done. ER+ 30 PR -, HER+++,k167 80% Grade 2 9/2012 biopsy on lymph node - showed malignant 9/2012 Pre-adjunctive TCH chemo. 12/6/12 MRI after Pre-adj. Results: Modest Decrease in size of left breast malignancy As well as the associated satellite lesions and auxiliary Adenopathy compared to prior study. Doctors hoped for better but good response it didn't grow. 12/18/2012 left masectomy with axillary nodes Size 3.2 CM, Nottingham score 9/9 Grade 3, no evidence of in situ carcinoma Areas of angiolymphatic are identified Carcinoma is 0.5 cm from inked deep Margin of excision Attached axillary lymph nodes: metastatic Carcinoma in 6 of 8 nodes. Size of largest node 1.5 cm Extracapsular ER + 73%, PR+2%, HER2+ 2/27/13 6 weeks of IMRT radiation finished 2/2013 Started on Tamoxifan 5 years. 8/2013 will take last Herceptin, 17 treatments total every 3 weeks. BRCA1 & BRAC2 - Negative August 28, 2013 DIEP flap on the left breast. February 2014 Nip & Tuck March 14, 2014 nipple reconstruction and removed port. August 14, 2014 lump in lymph nodes under arm and above clavicle. Stage IV August 28, 2014 herceptin And projeta starting and port put back in. 3/18/15 stopped arimidex. 3/18/15 progression....Tdm1