[Soccermom]

Joanne, I'm so very sorry for this news!
I like Becky's suggestion about possible "intra peritoneal/abdominal chemotherapy" I think it has real potential in your case.
Also if you can possibly do it I would get to an NCI designated cancer facility for that critical third opinion. They have Gynecological Oncologists who have more experiences dealing with metastices from distant sites.MDAnderson in Houston was my choice for second opinion. Then treatment carried out at home.
I can understanding how terribly overwhelmed you are and how tiring this all is but muster every ounce of strength you have and seek out Doctors who think beyond the norm and who are highly experienced .
Ill be holding you close to my heart and in my prayers,
Marcia