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Re: Relationship challenges
my husband has been super supportive but sometimes I joke with friends (dark humor) that if we weren't married with 2 kids he would have fleed a long time ago. What I mean is that I think there are days he just wants to run from this too but not because he doesn't love me but because he just wants to have a normal life again without worry and stress. It is so tough - it does test even the best relationships.
you are in the worst part of it (active treatment) it does get better -if he wasn't willing to stick around then you are probably right that he is not who you thought he was
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diagnosed aug/11
right breast IDC 2.2 cm LVI
neoadjuvant fecx3, tax and her x3
surgery -pCR 0/2 nodes
25 rads
herceptin x18
tamox
prophy bi-msx with TE's oct 15/12
LD flap reconstruction (PM me if you want the details)
zoladex shots monthly until SOFT studies come out
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