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Re: How can I help her?
I have no advice since I can't imagine how she is feeling with such devastating news, we all react to the news in different ways. I cried a river and didn't want to see anybody at first. A good listener is always good medicine for anybody especially when they understand as u do since u have gone thru a dx too. Pray for her and I will to. U already have supported her and I am sure she is so grateful to have u. Just continue to do what u did before and be there for her. What a kind person u r. Please keep us posted, we r there for both of u. This will be tough on u as well since we feel so helpless. She will most likely let u know if she needs anything from u since she has trust and confidence in you. U will know what to do when she asks if she asks. Good luck and u r both in my prayers.
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DX Sept 30 2010 at the age of 49. Oh crap! 1.5 cm idc, stage 1 grade 3 er/pr+, her2+ no lymph nodes, mastectomy Oct/10. Started 6 rounds of TCH Dec/10 and will continue herceptin until Nov /11 and just started femara.
Stray kitten found my lump while I was playing with it. It is now my pet and my dog is not real happy about that.
Mammo good
last herceptin 11/21/11 YAY
reconstruction 12/09/11
Chapter closed 12/10/11, hopefully, fingers crossed
Bone scan, chest xray, clear
04/27/12 Expander removed, implant put in, ahh sigh of relief, much more comfortable
Sept 30, 2014, 4 years NED
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