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Old 01-03-2012, 09:37 PM   #9
CoolBreeze
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Re: Denied a massage because of my cancer...

I'm so sorry you were denied the relaxation you wanted, and that their reasoning was BS.

However, there have been instances of women with cancer getting chiropractic adjustments and massage and ending up with broken spines. If you have bone mets, especially unknown mets, it's possible that your bones can be very brittle and and person who doesn't know what they are doing can hurt someone. Oncologists don't recommend chiropractic adjustments or vigorous massage for some women with bone mets.

Massage might be taking it too far, but frankly, in this litigious day and age, I might implement the same policy as a Salom owner. before you start trying to ruin their reputation, you might talk to the owner and make sure they get some education.

I sure would have my therapists know what the policy was and be able to explain it. And, it wouldn't be a general "anybody on chemo" although some people believe that massage moves energy and might blame the spread of mets on a salon.

Everybody wants to sue everybody and while they went overboard, I can sort of understand it.
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Multifocal/multicentric IDC, largest 3.4 cm, associated ADH, LCIS, DCIS
HER2+ ER+/PR- Grade 3, Node Negative

10/20/2009: Right mastectomy, reconstruction with TE
12/02/2009: Six rounds TCH, switched to Taxol halfway through due to neuropathy
03/31/2010: Finished chemo
05/01/2010: Began tamoxifen, the worst drug ever
11/18/2010: Reconstruction completed
12/02/2010: Finished herceptin
05/21/2011: Liver Mets. Quit Tamoxifen
06/22/2011: Navelbine/Zometa/Herceptin
10/03/2011: Liver Resection, left lobe. Microwave ablation, right lobe - going for cure!
11/26/2011: C-Diff Superbug Infection, "worst case doctor had seen in 20 years"
03/28/2012: Progression in ablated section of the liver - no more cure. Started Abraxane, continue herceptin/zometa
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01/15/2013: Progression continues, started Gemzar and Perjeta, an unusual combo, continuing with herceptin and zometa
03/13/2013: Quit Gemzar, body just won't handle it. Staying on herceptin, zometa and perjeta.
04/03/2013: CT shows 50% regression in tumor, so am starting back on Gemzar with dose reduction, staying with perjeta/herceptin/zometa. Can't argue with success!
05/09/2013: Discussing SBRT with Radiology due to inability of bone marrow to recover from chemo.
06/07/2013: Fiducial placement for SBRT
07/03/2013: Chemo discontinued, on Perjeta, Herceptin and Zometa alone
07/25/2013: SBRT (gamma knife) begins
08/01/2013: SBRT completed
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11/08/2015: Progression throughout abdomen and lungs. Started TDM-1, aka Kadcyla. Other meds discontinued. Remission was nice while it lasted.

5/27/18: Stable. Kadcyla put me right back in the barn. I have two teeny spots on my lungs that are metabolically inactive, and liver is clean.

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