[BonnieR]

Hi Jody. I'm sorry that the small hope I was extending did not materialize. But you had yourself well prepared for whatever the results and recommendations. My chemo was pretty much the same as yours. I had Taxol.
Expect the first treatment to be a loooong day. Dress really warm and comfy. Treatment rooms are always cold. Bring snacks and water. My center served us sandwiches. Have something to stay busy, reading, iPod. I kept a journal. You will also probably be sleepy from the premeds they administer. I was hyper the day after but then crashed around day 2 or 3 so you might consider scheduling your days off work accordingly.
My appetite went away so I tried to eat high fat and calorie things. Frequent small snacks of cheese, yogurt, Ensure drink. My onc said this was one time I could splurge on hamburgers, milk shakes etc, to maintain weight.
Have easy foods around the house. And when people ask how they can help, TELL them....they could make meals and bring them over, or take the kids for pizza, do some housework. Whatever you need.
Build a team of treatment specialists and attend groups if your facility has any and you have the time. Keep notes of everything. Have someone with you at appointments to help hear what you are being told...
That is all off the top of my head. I know others will be along to offer support.
Keep the faith.