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Michka,
True, that type of localized treatment is not "standard of care" for breast cancer mets, but there is growing evidence that it can be effective, even sometimes curative in certain situations. In my case it was not an option because I was dealing with extensive widespread liver mets. But if it had been one or two small ones, I would have wanted it seriously considered.

It may be worth a try compiling some of that data, with the help of your oncologist, supporting that position - and get another opinion. Here in the states many oncs are resistant to the idea because there is not a LOT of data, but that thinking is beginning to change.

You could also consider a radiological approach (like RFA) which is less invasive than surgery.

Good luck, keep us posted.