Hi !
I have been terrible about checking in. Sending my love to all of you.
Here is a site that I found helpful:
http://www.breastfree.org/viewer.php?num=2
I did not reconstruct and RARELY wear my uncomfortable prosthesis. People don't notice....I am sure of it. Like Debbie, I felt like it was obvious but now I am totally comfortable. Sometimes I even wear t-shirts WITHOUT putting my new twins into the torture bra and strapping it on. LOL
Very personal decision, as others said. VERY personal. I had people from nurses to friends to family offer advice and try to convince me that I was too young to
not reconstruct. I went with my heart and for me it was perfect to have the double mastectomy and be done with surgeries.
HUGS and love to you all!
Maureen