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Lien · 12-23-2009, 11:33 AM

I think that sometimes we do a lot of grieving while our loved one is sick, so we are ready sooner than others would be. Also, perhaps the new love postpones the grieving, but who is to say if that's a bad thing? We all do it our own way and something that fits me, could be totally wrong for someone else. Perhaps, if we postpone the grieving, it will engulf us when we least expect it to. But if our new relationship is good and our new lover can handle the grief, it could well be a blessing. Live and let live...

Jacqueline

12-23-2009, 11:33 AM	#40
Lien Senior Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Haarlem, the Netherlands Posts: 835	Re: OK my opinion...Like it or not I think that sometimes we do a lot of grieving while our loved one is sick, so we are ready sooner than others would be. Also, perhaps the new love postpones the grieving, but who is to say if that's a bad thing? We all do it our own way and something that fits me, could be totally wrong for someone else. Perhaps, if we postpone the grieving, it will engulf us when we least expect it to. But if our new relationship is good and our new lover can handle the grief, it could well be a blessing. Live and let live... Jacqueline __________________ Diagnosed age 44, January 2004, 0.7 cm IDC & DCIS. Stage 1, grade 3, ER/PR pos. HER2 pos. clear margins, no nodes. SNB. 35 rads. On Zoladex and Armidex since Dec. 2004. Stopped Zoladex/Arimidex sept 2009 Still taking mistletoe shots (CAM therapy) Doing fine.