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Lien · 12-14-2009, 03:33 PM

I think that if there are no kids involved, the spouse who lost his or her partner has to decide for him/herself how long they need to mourn. Maybe they make a mistake, maybe they get it right. But it's nothing to do with us.

If there are kids, we should have a say in the matter. And it would depend on the children and their needs.

Just my 0,02

Jacqueline

12-14-2009, 03:33 PM	#31
Lien Senior Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Haarlem, the Netherlands Posts: 835	Re: OK my opinion...Like it or not I think that if there are no kids involved, the spouse who lost his or her partner has to decide for him/herself how long they need to mourn. Maybe they make a mistake, maybe they get it right. But it's nothing to do with us. If there are kids, we should have a say in the matter. And it would depend on the children and their needs. Just my 0,02 Jacqueline __________________ Diagnosed age 44, January 2004, 0.7 cm IDC & DCIS. Stage 1, grade 3, ER/PR pos. HER2 pos. clear margins, no nodes. SNB. 35 rads. On Zoladex and Armidex since Dec. 2004. Stopped Zoladex/Arimidex sept 2009 Still taking mistletoe shots (CAM therapy) Doing fine.