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Re: OK my opinion...Like it or not
Susan, my thoughts exactly. It is very depressing to a lot of us that are fighting for our lives to hear of spouses moving on so quickly. And with this being a support group, I think there should be a little more sensitivity placed on the feelings of those of us that it would and does upset. What I'm saying is before announcing to the whole board that you have moved on, found a new love and are happier than ever within months of your spouses passing, please consider it may hurt quite a few people here. It has been done more than once and has upset more than just myself. Not everyone is quite so excited and joyful when then happens. I went out on the limb when I posted this, fully knowing not everyone would be happy I did. But I think it had to be said...now I am done...sherry
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Sherry
Diagnosed: December , 2005 at age 44
13+ positive lymph nodes
Stage IV , Her2+, 2 small mets to lungsChemo Started: Jan, 2006
4 months Taxotere, Xeloda, Hercepin
NED since April 2006!!
36 Rads to follow with weekly Herceptin indefinately
8 years NED now
Scans every year
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