[Mary Jo]

Yes Sherry you can surely have your opinion as you have and so have I.

Of course, children should not be put on the back burner and of course they should be the priority. That's a no brainer. However, and very unfortunately, that is not always the case. However, there are also those who do not have young children or have no children. I know people in both catagories. They started dating fairly quickly after their spouse had passed. Knowing these individuals very well, and knowing the love they had for their spouse, it would be very wrong of myself or others to judge them on the basis of what we see as wrong or right.

Again I repeat, "until any of us have walked a mile in someone elses shoes, who are we to judge." (paraphrased by me)

The world is a hard place....and people go through some tough things......I think we need to be more understanding and forgiving of others. This is a cancer support board, for goodness sake, lets quit all the bashing and name calling and support one another.

Peace and love to each of you....

Mary Jo