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Andrea Barnett Budin · 07-21-2009, 11:17 AM

I believe what we BELIEVE is reflected in our thoughts. They are programmed into our brain. They play ON REPEAT all day. Doubts and uncertainty creep in. They slowly become obsessive and gnaw at us. We begin to think that if we are thinking it, it is probably all rooted in Truth. So we start to become possessed by our negativity and it multiplies and grows.

So, personally, I take those thoughts -- the ones we each have from time to time -- I process them, experience them, don't deny them or repress them, vent in some way and move on.

Venting can be by reading posts on this site passively or it can mean expressing and sharing your feelings as you have done, Ms Unregistered... Tehe

When I say I move on, I consciously choose to dispose of my scary, albeit horrifying, thoughts, my complete sense of doom, frailty, insecurity and such -- refusing to allow such ideas to rent space in my head.

Then, I install thoughts that reflect my deepest desire. Because I believe what we think impacts our reality this is of utmost importance.

Thoughts are energy and go out from us into the Universe. They travel at varying speeds and frequencies, dependant on the amount of negativity or positivity they have. And our thoughts, and prayers, are met by the Universe. They are sensed. And responded to. IN KIND. So, our thoughts attract what it is we are focusing on.

I AM HEALTHY AND WELL. I AM GRATEFUL FOR EACH DAY. I LOVE LIFE. Therefore, you will be full of joy and serenity, KNOWING you are calling your desired destiny to you, versus your worst nightmares to you! YOU HAVE THAT POWER. It's really quite cool.

Also, the messages your brain sends out are heard by your body and -- responded to. Your body takes its direction from your mind. So stay far away from thoughts full of doom and gloom, resignation and sorrow, awful imaginings and such.

You can simply open your heart, and your mind, to become a vessel for Universal Love. Think, speak, act with kindness and compassion, with caring and generosity of Spirit. Be grateful for the blessing of wellness. Live with all these positive emotions and KNOW you are magnetizing like energy to you!

Please read my BE BRAVE thread below...

Be brave! - HER2 Support Group Forums

Continue enjoying Life, your friends and family... This is extremely healing, along with laughter of course.

PLEASE CHECK OUT MY SIGNATURE FOR MY STORY. I AM AN OLD TIMER. DX IN '95, NO HERCEPTIN AVAILABLE IN THAT ERA, RECURRED IN '98 AND...
HERE AM I!!!

YOU TOO CAN LIVE FOR MANY MANY DECADES TO COME. DON'T SETTLE FOR AGE 80. GO FOR 100. WHAT THE HEY...
Andi

07-21-2009, 11:17 AM	#3
Andrea Barnett Budin Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: LAND OF YES! w/home in Boca Raton, Florida Orig from L.I., N.Y. Ever hovering IN THE NOW... Posts: 1,904	With much love... I believe what we BELIEVE is reflected in our thoughts. They are programmed into our brain. They play ON REPEAT all day. Doubts and uncertainty creep in. They slowly become obsessive and gnaw at us. We begin to think that if we are thinking it, it is probably all rooted in Truth. So we start to become possessed by our negativity and it multiplies and grows. So, personally, I take those thoughts -- the ones we each have from time to time -- I process them, experience them, don't deny them or repress them, vent in some way and move on. Venting can be by reading posts on this site passively or it can mean expressing and sharing your feelings as you have done, Ms Unregistered... Tehe When I say I move on, I consciously choose to dispose of my scary, albeit horrifying, thoughts, my complete sense of doom, frailty, insecurity and such -- refusing to allow such ideas to rent space in my head. Then, I install thoughts that reflect my deepest desire. Because I believe what we think impacts our reality this is of utmost importance. Thoughts are energy and go out from us into the Universe. They travel at varying speeds and frequencies, dependant on the amount of negativity or positivity they have. And our thoughts, and prayers, are met by the Universe. They are sensed. And responded to. IN KIND. So, our thoughts attract what it is we are focusing on. I AM HEALTHY AND WELL. I AM GRATEFUL FOR EACH DAY. I LOVE LIFE. Therefore, you will be full of joy and serenity, KNOWING you are calling your desired destiny to you, versus your worst nightmares to you! YOU HAVE THAT POWER. It's really quite cool. Also, the messages your brain sends out are heard by your body and -- responded to. Your body takes its direction from your mind. So stay far away from thoughts full of doom and gloom, resignation and sorrow, awful imaginings and such. You can simply open your heart, and your mind, to become a vessel for Universal Love. Think, speak, act with kindness and compassion, with caring and generosity of Spirit. Be grateful for the blessing of wellness. Live with all these positive emotions and KNOW you are magnetizing like energy to you! Please read my BE BRAVE thread below... Be brave! - HER2 Support Group Forums Continue enjoying Life, your friends and family... This is extremely healing, along with laughter of course. PLEASE CHECK OUT MY SIGNATURE FOR MY STORY. I AM AN OLD TIMER. DX IN '95, NO HERCEPTIN AVAILABLE IN THAT ERA, RECURRED IN '98 AND... HERE AM I!!! YOU TOO CAN LIVE FOR MANY MANY DECADES TO COME. DON'T SETTLE FOR AGE 80. GO FOR 100. WHAT THE HEY... Andi __________________ Andi BB '95 post-meno dx Invasive LOBULAR w/9cm tumor! YIKES + 2/21 nodes. Clear mammo 10 mnths earlier. Mastec/tram flap reconst/PORT/8 mnths chemo (4Adria/8CMF). Borderline ER/PR. Tamoxifen 2 yrs. Felt BLESSED. I could walk and talk, feed and bathe myself! I KNEW I would survive... '98 -- multiple mets to liver. HER2+ 80%. ER/PR- Raging, highly aggressive tumors spreading fast. New PORT. 9 mnths Taxotere Fought fire w/fire! Pronounced in cautious remission 5/99. Taxotere weekly for 6 wks, 2 wks off -- for 9 mnths. TALK ABOUT GRUELING! (I believe they've altered that protocol since those days -- sure hope so!!) + good old Vit H wkly for 1st 3 yrs, then triple dosage ev 3 wks for 7 yrs more... The "easy" chemo, right?! Not a walk in the park, but not a freight train coming at 'ya either... Added Herceptin Nov '98 (6 wks after FDA fast-tracked it for met bc). Stayed w/Vit H till July '08! Now I AM FREE! Humbly and eternally grateful for this life-saving drug! NED since '99 and planning on keeping it that way. To hell w/poor prognosis and nasty stats! STOPPED VIT H JULY '08...! REMAIN STABLE... Eternally grateful...Yes is a world & in this world of yes live (skillfully curled) all worlds ... (e e cummings) EVERY DAY I BEAT MY PREVIOUS RECORD FOR # OF CONSECUTIVE DAYS I'VE STAYED ALIVE. Smile KNOWING you too can be a miracle. Up to me and God now...