[Sherryg683]

Thanks for all the wonderful advise and concern. I have been married 27 years to this man and this has been going on for 27 years. He's not physically abusive and most of the time is a good guy, although very moody. He's just loud and when gets angry tries to intimidate with his screaming. I am not one to be intimidated so we end up fighting, im just tired of it. We have been through counseling more than once and it helped once but we always seem to slip into old habits. I am just almost at the point where I don't want to talk about stuff that we've hashed and rehased many times. I just want someone who I can have fun with and I think he intentionally tries to sabatoge me enjoying myself...i really do believe this. I guess at anytime of your life there are going to be both good and bad things going on. It's better to focus on the good and sort of try to put the bad out of your mind. We did have a talk this morning after 4 days of not speaking to each other and things are better until the next time we have a blow up. I do not think that I am ready to go out and have to get a minimum wage job and try to pay insurance policies and raise my little girl and go to charity hospitals, so I guess I am going to have to work on making what I have peaceful. He is not a physical threat to me or my little girl, he just makes me so damn mad I could spit. Someone gave me the advise to just walk away in these times and that's probably what I should do. I'm just a fighter myself, which Is why I think im still alive, and its hard for me to walk away from anything. But thank you all...sherry