First of all,
This all began from a point of view that could have been avoided....
It hurts me to read that Brenda D now feels she should aplogize for her good news, that makes me feel very sad to read.
I also thank Hopeful for giving the instructions on how to avoid certain member who may post threads that you may not wish to view. Self censorship is what I beleive we have done in the past.
Like any group we will have difference of opinions and thoughts, hey that is what we are here for. If we all thought the same how could we benefit ourselves and others who join in.
In any great company or organization there are focus groups...in that body of people we never select the same personalities.
Joe I think the majority has shown that self censorship is the way to go....please...as long as the person posting is following the golden rule.
No name calling, we are grown women who are all fighting the same monster. I think of us as a huge patch quilt with each person bringing a beautiful patch of color that holds experiences, emotions, thoughts, humor,tears, joy....with this site we are one huge blanket that covers all of us and I feel protected and safe while here.
I am troubled by the recent events that brought this on,
now we have members who are now afraid to post their joy....that is a shame. All one has to do is click like Hopeful advised.

Jean