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Hey little Sis! Wow, I've read this thread about three times now and figured it was time to comment. I wish I had some awesome words of wisdom to make everything better for you and Luca, but I don't. To paraphrase the great warrior/king Attila the Hun, "choose your battles carefully. If you choose to fight every battle, however large or small that comes your way, you may not have enough strength or resources to fight the really important ones". Joy, right now your major battle is beating cancer. Please try to set aside worries of dependence on your family, and worries about Luca's dealings with his ex., and all thoughts, at this point of co-habitation. The holidays, as we all know, are extremely stressful all by themselves. You have a "laundry list" of added stresses. Let me help you eliminate one right now. Look Luca and the eye and tell him, "Luca, I love you and want to be with you, but I've got way too much going on right now to discuss moving in together. You can take me out to dinner on January 15th, and we will discuss it then." Joy, by then you will have more info. on your scans, and I'm sure Luca can hang in there another six weeks with his house. The stress of the holidays will be behind you, and I'm sure that whatever help you are receiving from family can continue until then. Also, it seems like Chrisy wants me and you to "hook up", which sounds great, but I'm spoken for and you are too, so that won't work. You hang in there, Sis. I'll PM you with my e-mail address to pass on to Luca if he wants to chat about anything. Love ya, Bill
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