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My kids were 2, 4 and 6 when I was diagnosed. We told them they found "bad cells" in my breast and the doctors were going to get rid of them with medicine and surgery. I was so worried about how the news and the treatment would effect them, but they were troopers. I think they pick up on fear and uncertainty and my dear hubby and I sure could put on an act for them. We also tried to keep routines as normal as possible for them.
We did not use the term "cancer" for a long time. Three years later, they all know I had and beat breast cancer.
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Are we there yet?
Dx 10/05 IDC, multi-focal, triple +, 5 nodes+
MRM, 4 DD A/C, 12 weekly taxol + herceptin
rads concurrent with taxol/herceptin
finished herceptin 01/08
ooph, Arimidex, bilateral DIEP reconstruction
NED
Univ. of WA, Seattle vaccine trial '07
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