Marie,
oh dear. I feel pretty uncomfortable with that term. Really I do.
I have been one damned lucky person. There are so very many, too many, who have been the most amazing women (and men) full of all the best there is to be... and yet they have not been 'lucky'.
What I am glad for and do appreciate, is that my own experiences are able to help you and others in some way or another.
so, thank you for your thanks

patty