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Terry, you are such a wonderful spouse for Ruth. I've read your posts and seen how much you care for each other shining through. It's our nature as caregivers to be strong for those we care for, and it is important to be positive for Ruth, and encourage her, the way you have. Your actions speak volumes. "How do I calm my fears?" It's human nature to fear the unknown. If you have questions for Ruth's docs., ask them, and do what you have been doing. Gather information, learn more, and do all you can to help her. This next step you have entered is a break in the "routine", which is unsettling. Once you and Ruth adjust to the new routine, things will settle. I wish I could help more with the treatment questions, but that's what the experts here are for. Thoughts and prayers to you and Ruth. Love, Bill
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