To all my smart sisters and brothers, I want to first thank you all, in person...(get a snickers bar - you'll be here a while).
Sheila,
PinkGirl,
Kareng,
Tonya (Faith in Him [BTW: like that name]),
Marcia (SoccerMom),
Joan_M,
Barbara H.,
Suzanne( mimiFlower07),
WomanOfSteel [Can I borrow the red cape some time?],
Hermiracles,
Caya,
Sassy,
Sherry683,
Paty,
Bill,
Kim in DC,
Julie2,
Chrisy,
Becky,
Flori,
Jeanette,
and all the others...
Ugh...
Thank you all! It has made us feel stronger about our decision to go with another Onc. We've been considering it for some time and, with the recent setup back, you gals (and guys [bill]) have helped us feel better about our choice. The language is not really the barrier here but the attitude that it's another patient or that the patient is to much trouble. Or knows to much.
Furthermoore - Thank you for your time in replies, every single one, it means alot to me. I love you all of you from the bottom of my heart.
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Now, for a little humor that Lily didn't want me to add... If I ever when an oscar or 'something' they'll need to que the music a little later becuase this list is getting very very long. Thank you.

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Lily
Diag April/06 5 months after give birth my son Max
stage IV mets on liver (5 tumors) 38 year old,
her2+++ and ER+PR+ from32 nodes 4 positives
mastectomy right breast chemo before surgery herceptin/carboplatin/taxotere ,clear and surgery have radiation 20, `& then herceptin and tamoxifen
NED until Aug/07 body only then 'n June 04-06-07 .1 lesion of 1.6 cm on cerebellum ...novalis ,open sugery
5m.m brain met again novalis, 4mm.In the liver. Waiting 2 months now 3 tumors enroll on T-MCC trial start first infusion Nov 5/07 at Dec 17 scan show one tumor despair the 2nd and 3th diminish Doc said great results until March/08 ct scan show progression
03-05-08 start tykerb & xeloda