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Old 04-01-2008, 08:59 AM   #4
BonnieR
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Have you been able to express to your mother how you feel? I know it is hard to do. Lee had some wonderful observations and suggestions. Additionally, my cancer center has periodic lectures and group discussions that are relevant and focus on family. And there is an upcoming telephone conferencer for family and friends. Perhaps something similar is offered in your area. Check with the social service dept.
Is there a chance that one of your docs would take the time to explain things to your mom so she feels part of the team?
Keep the faith.
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Post menopause
May 2007 Core biopsy, Rt breast
ER+, Pr-, HER2 +++, Grade 3
Ki-67: 90%
"suspicious area" left breast
Bilateral mastectomy, (NED on left) May 2007
Sentinel Node Neg
Stage 1, DCIS with microinvasion, 3 mm, mostly removed during the biopsy....
Femara (discontinued 7/07) Resumed 10/07
OncoType score 36 (July 07)
Began THC 7/26/07 (d/c taxol and carboplatin 10/07)
Began Herceptin alone 10/07
Finished Herceptin July /08
D/C Femara 4/10 (joint pain/trigger thumb!)
5/10 mistakenly dx with lung cancer. Middle rt lobe removed!
Aromasin started 5/10
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