[IRENE FROM TAMPA]

Hermiracles ..

I certainly am not qualified to say go or not but I see it this way..

You are stage 4 but how do you feel. Are you strong enough to make the long trip. Are you at great risk for infections while traveling.

I am stage 4 and two years ago we planned a trip to Italy for a month. The trip of my dreams. At the same time I had progression and had just started on the Tykerb/Xeloda trial. Not knowing how I would react to this combo and being in a country I knew nothing about as far as hospitals, we still decided to go for it. My trial co-ordinator was so worried about me. She later told me that she was amazed that "you grabbed your drugs and took off" ....haha

I was not feeling the greatest when we left but once we arrived and I saw that beautiful countryside - I felt great. Of course I was very careful while there. We had a wonderful time and I will always have those memories.

I certainly would not want to steer you the wrong way not really knowing your situation - but check out your medical options in case something were to happen while traveling and if you decide to take the trip - have the time of your life...after all, isn't that what this fight is all about...to live..

If it turns out that you can not make the trip...maybe you can turn to one of the other options the ladies suggested and still be there in your heart.

Good luck Hermiracles..let us know what you decide.