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		Kat in the Delta 
  
Yes - I understand completely.  Sorry to barge in on the chat- but had to say that I  feel the same.  My oncologist is the most lovely woman you could imagine- so kind and seems to understand.  She told me that I may well never get back to normal.  That's just how it is so I am going to try to get on with it BUT at the same time I am doing my best to eat well-exercise and be much more selfish.   
  
I totally agree that other people cannot understand.  In fact I am amazed at the lack of empathy.  If I am being generous I would say that it is partly because they care so much they don't want to believe you feel the way you do- but actually I think we are just all programmed to be selfish.   
  
So I am going to be the same. 
Really hope you get through this rough patch soon.  I am amazed at the progress I have made recently- but I am not eorking at the moment and that helps- I just sort of collapsed mentally and threw the towel in with work-temporarily. 
  
It is unbelievable what has happened to us all- but I am wondering if denial would be a better place to live! 
  
Love Debbie 
		
	
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	
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