Joy,
I understand your fears and am sorry that you and so many others have to go through it. I think the key is to know that your fears are normal but they don't have to control you. I remember a saying I read on this site (please excuse me if I don't get it exactly right)...."cancer may be able to control how long I live but it can't control HOW I live". Easier said than done but try and remember that you have more power than you probably feel.
Enjoy your relationship and your kids!
Eric
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