It is a terrible situation for your family. I don't believe it helps anything by more confrontation. One thing leads to the other and more tension builds up. I think Lani is wise to advise moderation. Walk away so that all can cool down. Maintain contacts but avoid close contacts. Hopefully, in time your mother would realize one shrill voice plus insult could not stir up a fight. Use your kindness to all around you, knowing all are physical or mental incapacitated. Take care of youself first. We love to see your postings and your pretty face.
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Ann
Stage 1 dx Sept 05
ER/PR positive HER2 +++ Grade 3
Invasive carcinoma 1 cm, no node involvement
Mastec Sept 05
Annual scans all negative, Oct 06
Postmenopause. Arimidex only since Sept 06, bone or muscle ache after 3 month
Off Arimidex, change to Femara 1/12-07, ache stopped
Sept 07 all tests negative, pass 2 year mark
Feb 08 continue doing well.
Sep 09 four year NED still on Femara.
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