[Joannie]

Michele:
I too feel that stress played a huge part in me getting breast cancer. I have always been active with exercise and ate a pretty good diet. Love raw veggies and all fruits. However, stress has always gotten me down. I took on everyones problems. Over the last few years, before my diagnosis, I had great amounts of stress and I know I just internalized it all. After I completed treatment, I sought out physcological help. Upon walking through his door the first time, he asked me what I hoped to accomplish and my response was "Teach me to deal with stress!" Over a period of 6 months, he did that. He validated that I can love someone but not have to carry their burdens for the choices they make. It was the best investment in my future that I could have made. I still get stressed from time to time, but I really have learned to listen and just walk away. I too am coming up on my 5 year mark in August. I'm also NED. I'm greatful for everyday and will work very hard the rest of my life to help bring awareness, raise money to search for the cure, and most importantly for me, be there for every sister who gets breast cancer who knocks on my door in complete desperation. I had so many survivors help me in my time of need. Before bc, I never felt like I had a true purpose in life. I feel like my calling is to offer support, encouragement, and hope. Through all the difficulties that cancer brings, God has granted me this gift. Thanks to all of you for all of your inspiration. I'm almost 5 years out but come to this site at least 4-5 times a week.