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oh dear
Maybe I shouldn't say this, but I'm going to anyway.
BonnieR posted that she finds the term kicking the
bucket "a bit insensitive".
Jean posted that she was truly sorry if she offended
anyone.
BonnieR said she was sorry and was merely expressing
an opinion - not intended as a personal attack.
Then Jean left and Becky jumped ship right behind her.
Does the crime fit the punishment here? Is saying you find
something "a bit insensitive" an offensive remark? I guess
it is to Jean and Becky backed her up.
I miss everyone who stops posting for whatever reason.
I wish we could get back to being able to express ourselves
and kiss and make-up when we have one of these little
"misunderstandings".
That's just what I think ... I have thick pink skin and the
remarks "a bit insensitive" and "kick the bucket" would not
offend me. I think I can be a bit insensitive sometimes, I
think everyone can - intentionally or unintentionally.
I don't want to be "walking on eggshells", afraid of saying
the wrong thing. I respect everyone here - BonnieR, Jean
and Becky. We need all of you here.
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Dx Aug/05 at age 51
2cm. Stage 2A, Grade 3
ER+/PR-
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Sept 7/05 Mastectomy
4 FAC, 4 Taxol, no radiation
1 year of Herceptin
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Arimidex for 5 years
Prophylactic mastectomy June 22/09
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