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All I can contribute, my friend is that you are in my thoughts and prayers now. If you have been here 7 months, I know you are a great husband. Please try to take care of yourself as well as your wife. Eat as well as you can, exercise, and seek peace of mind through whatever wholesome means you can. Where do you live in NC? just curious. I wish I could help more. I know you want her to visit this site, but sometimes, "less is more", it's a great thing for her that you are here, and she will come here in due time when it is right for her. (You sisters, tune out here. It's just me and Phurst drinking a beer and searing meat on the grill) We men are linear-thinking problem-solvers. We want to solve every problem and try to think of the best logical step to take next, and when the women in our lives don't "listen", it can become frustrating. I wish I could offer advice about the mastectomy issues, but I can't. I have a cousin who elected to have both breast removed (one just to avoid possible cancer in it), so I understand her concerns. Maybe you should seek a second or third opinion. Women tend to be spatial thinkers, trying to think of everything all at once, that's why they are so good at multi-tasking, but in my opinion, that's why they sometimes worry about everything all at once, too. (I might hear about this one). I wish I could be more help. Prayers for you both, Bill
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