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Forgive me in advance for talking about this subject. I guess I was raised in a time and place where discussing sexual subjects just wasn't talked about in a public way. That time and place are now long gone, but it may be one of the reasons doctors are reluctant to discuss the subject of sex. The only reason I would bring up anything was that I wanted to make sure there is at least one husband's perspective.
What I will say to you is that you are okay. If I am the man you should spend the rest of your life with, then I will love you and accept you, no matter what. I took a vow that I would cherish you, forsaking all others, in sickness and in health. I will honor that promise with you. Baldness, scars, menopause, the smell of chemotherapy on your skin and any other physical thing isn't going to change how I feel about you. It isn't going to change how much I want to be intimate with you. I've grown to love you. I am past adolescent infatuations and I think we have something more than that going on.
Let me know what you are feeling. If you are insecure, than I will help you. If you are uncomfortable with sex, let me know and we will try different things. It won't hurt my feelings. We are in this together and we will work things out together.
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