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Old 01-15-2008, 04:26 PM   #19
CLTann
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On another thread on D3 level, I already expounded on the attitude of doctors. Of course, there are some doctors who are compassionate and kind, but they are minorities. Some of the responders to your message disagreed with me from their own perspectives. Unfortunately, there are too many doctors like yours. They are real problems for us patients.

It is too easy to say, fire the doctor. Many of them are associated with others and your chance of getting a good one is quite low. In a big city, where there are more choices, the switch is often difficult. Big city doctors are notoriously cold. Small city doctors could be more caring but the selection is limited. You are almost finished if you become a persona non grata in a small community. I sincerely wish you are successful in finding a new doctor. I agree with others that you have no chance to re-educate your present doctor on his manners. By all means, locate a doctor from a university medical school, they are not as commercialized, more objective and quite up to date on new technology.
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