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Jean · 11-12-2007, 10:05 AM

Dear Sherry,
It always amazes me when people are rewarded just because they are blood, not because they are deserving.
It is a shame your brother doesn't understand that he has the wonderful opportunity to leave a beautiful legacy. He could donate some of the money to a worthy organizaton/or/charity. It is obvious that he has no ill feelings against you or your husband, since he told you about his will. Explain to him that an inheritance is a gift of love....

It is so important that he understand how hurt you are. It will not be an easy conversation for you, be prepared so you can handle the topic with
calm.

I have a dear friend who is an angel, and yet I have seen injustice to her that is not fair or even reasonable. She often says, "No Good Deeds Go Unpunished." Hopefully this will not be the case for you.

Kind Regards,
jean

11-12-2007, 10:05 AM	#10
Jean Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,154	Dear Sherry, It always amazes me when people are rewarded just because they are blood, not because they are deserving. It is a shame your brother doesn't understand that he has the wonderful opportunity to leave a beautiful legacy. He could donate some of the money to a worthy organizaton/or/charity. It is obvious that he has no ill feelings against you or your husband, since he told you about his will. Explain to him that an inheritance is a gift of love.... It is so important that he understand how hurt you are. It will not be an easy conversation for you, be prepared so you can handle the topic with calm. I have a dear friend who is an angel, and yet I have seen injustice to her that is not fair or even reasonable. She often says, "No Good Deeds Go Unpunished." Hopefully this will not be the case for you. Kind Regards, jean __________________ Stage 1, Grade 1, 3/30/05 Lumpectomy 4/15/05 - 6MM IDC Node Neg. (Sentinel node) ER+ 90% / PR-, Her2+++ by FISH Ki-67 40% Arimidex 5/05 Radiation 32 trt, 5/30/05 Oncotype DX test 4/17/06, 31% high risk TOPO 11 neg. 4/06 Stopped Arimidex 5/06 TCH 5/06, 6 treatments Herceptin 5/06 - for 1 yr. 9/06 Completed chemo Started Femara Sept. 2006 Last edited by Jean; 11-12-2007 at 07:52 PM..